Things to Look Forward to…

“Man Up (Boys Do/n’t Cry)”: A Documentary for Black Men Destigmatizing Mental Health Treatment

 

For many years, black men have been depicted as violent, predatory, callous, unintelligent, and several other demoralizing biases that are patterned in the media and left as trauma unhinged. “Man Up (Boys Do/Nt Cry)” is a documentary about willing, black men beginning their journey towards “trauma healing” or mental and emotional recovery. They will be participating in both private sessions, and an open dialogue with other black men and licensed therapists about environment, relationships, childhood and adulthood turbulence, grief, confidence, etc without judgement. By receiving an objective and relatable viewpoint, the goal of this documentary should offer a safe space for black men to embrace true vulnerability while unlearning vicious cycles and breaking generational curses of silent oppression. This documentary would be centrally filmed in my hometown (Muskegon, MI), as over the years, I have personally spoken, and have relationships with black men in my community (from children to men in their 60s) who feel demonized for “not opening up,” while struggling with never being taught how to do so. They express how they were labeled weak or even gay for crying, so after being conditioned to think that there is a negative correlation between “being a man,” and crying and a positive correlation between manhood and “grinning and bearing”— they were subjected to their fears of perpetuating weakness to which is seemingly insurmountable. “ Man Up (Boys Do/Nt Cry)” is important to me because black men are hurting, they are wilting inside—-as if the school to prison pipeline, the race and drug wars, police brutality, and community violence did not already pre pluck our seeds, society created a fallacy that no one would be willing to labor and replant what is left of their harvested tears. “Man Up (Boys Do/Nt Cry),” is the first step to uprooting.

 
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The Mourning After is the sequel to PreMarital. This visual will focus on the physical, emotional, and mental mourning after we engage in sex and exchange soul ties with a person. The main character will toy with the idea of her own eligibility for companionship and what she feels she deserves —having done and been through all that she has. When she finally meets a person who may be able to relate, she finds herself battling inwardly with much more than she realized. . . Stay Tuned!

While you were away. . .

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“Catastrophe, defined as an event causing great and often sudden damage or suffering; a disaster. As women, some of us have experienced events that have caused great and sudden damage to us physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. These events may have altered our self-esteem and our ability to believe that we can heal, move forward and operate in our fullest potential.

This event is geared towards the empowerment and healing of women, reassuring her of how valuable she is despite what she has been through. Come and enjoy a day of fellowship, fun, networking and empowerment through a phenomenal spoken word piece, thought-provoking table discussions and a dynamic message from our Keynote speaker.” Tickets Here

I am organizing my very first women empowerment conference in called, "50 Shades of Melanin" on Saturday, May 25th from 10a-2pm at Muskegon Heights High School where I am planning to uplift and inspire young black girls and women in our community by…

I am organizing my very first women empowerment conference in called, "50 Shades of Melanin" on Saturday, May 25th from 10a-2pm at Muskegon Heights High School where I am planning to uplift and inspire young black girls and women in our community by discussing hygiene, self-care, mental health, physical well being, confidence, etc. . Young girls and women in our community need events like this to help promote self-love and respect for one another, and I have deemed myself responsible for contributing as much of myself as possible by maximizing my time in Muskegon to create events like this one. I will also be debuting my second short film called, "dark sKKKin," which is a visual production with a centered focus around the controversy of colorism and the skin bleaching epidemic in the black community. This visual will highlight the common narrative of many dark- skinned black women from childhood to adulthood, and some true testimonials of their earliest encounters with discrimination in comparison to their lighter/ "fair skinned" counterparts. Tickets Here